How do I pray istikhara for making decisions?
Answered with evidence from the Quran and authentic Hadith
Quick Answer
Istikhara is a 2-rakat prayer followed by a specific dua, asking Allah to guide you toward what's best. Pray it when facing any important decision — job offers, marriage, moving, etc. It's not about seeing a dream or getting a "sign" — it's about trusting that Allah will steer events toward what's best for you.
Detailed Answer
Istikhara literally means "seeking what is best." It's a beautiful practice where you ask the Creator of the universe to guide your decision. The Prophet (peace be upon him) taught this to the Companions for ALL important matters.
How to pray it: (1) Make wudu. (2) Pray 2 voluntary rakats. (3) After finishing, raise your hands and recite the istikhara dua (which the Prophet taught). In the dua, you specifically mention your decision and ask Allah to make it happen if it's good for you, or turn it away if it's bad for you.
Common misconceptions: (1) "I need to see a dream" — NO. Istikhara doesn't require a dream. Most guidance comes through events naturally unfolding, doors opening or closing, and a general feeling of peace or unease. (2) "I should only do it once" — you can repeat it up to 7 days if you're still unsure. (3) "The feeling in my heart IS the answer" — not necessarily. The answer comes through how events unfold, not just emotions.
After istikhara: Move forward with your decision and trust Allah. If it's meant to be, doors will open. If it's not, obstacles will appear. Don't second-guess — you've asked the All-Knowing for guidance. Whatever happens IS the answer to your istikhara.
Evidence from Quran & Hadith
Jabir said: The Prophet (peace be upon him) used to teach us the istikhara for all our affairs, just as he used to teach us a surah from the Quran.
وَرَبُّكَ يَخْلُقُ مَا يَشَاءُ وَيَخْتَارُ
Wa Rabbuka yakhluqu maa yashaa-u wa yakhtaar
“And your Lord creates what He wills and chooses.”
Key Points
- ✦Istikhara literally means "seeking what is best." It's a beautiful practice where you ask the Creator of the universe to guide your decision.
- ✦How to pray it: (1) Make wudu.
- ✦Common misconceptions: (1) "I need to see a dream" — NO.
- ✦After istikhara: Move forward with your decision and trust Allah.
Related Questions
How do I pray Fajr (dawn prayer)?
Fajr prayer consists of 2 rakats (units) performed after dawn and before sunrise. It begins with the opening takbir (Allahu Akbar), recitation of Al-Fatihah and a short surah in each rakat, followed by ruku (bowing) and sujud (prostration).
How many rakats are in each prayer?
The five daily prayers are: Fajr (2 rakats), Dhuhr (4 rakats), Asr (4 rakats), Maghrib (3 rakats), and Isha (4 rakats). This totals 17 obligatory rakats per day.
Can I pray (make salah) in English instead of Arabic?
The obligatory parts of salah (Al-Fatihah, takbir, tashahhud) must be recited in Arabic. However, personal dua (supplication) can be made in any language. New Muslims who have not yet memorized Arabic recitations may recite what they can while learning.
What breaks your wudu (ablution)?
Wudu is broken by: passing gas or using the bathroom, deep sleep, loss of consciousness, touching private parts directly, and bleeding (according to some scholars). Eating, touching a spouse, or minor naps do not break wudu.
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Note: This answer is based on the Quran and authentic Hadith for general guidance. For detailed rulings on your specific situation, please consult a qualified Islamic scholar. May Allah guide us all to the truth.